Okay, It has officially been about 2 1/2 months since Kevin surprised me with divorce papers and kicked me out of our home. Since then he has taken Grace from me for 3 days at a time every week due to a court order. I have tried several times for a hearing to stop this madness, but it has always been postponed. To top that, my past lawyer was just awful and would not call, text, or even email me back for weeks at a time and when I finally would get acknowledgement from him, he would conveniently "forget" to subpeona people to use in my hearing.
So, now I have a much better lawyer, thanks to Erin and he is working on my case. I unfortunately am getting used to not having my baby with me half the week every week, but it still sucks.
I am so afraid that Kevin will not let me see her on her birthday and Christmas since these dates fall on his court ordered visitations.
Everyone knows that Kevin was never a true father to Grace while we were together, so why is he taking her away from me now that we are apart? I think it has everything to do with not wanting to pay child support. The thing is, you can't choose to only be a dad when a child is with you half the week. You must choose to be a dad always. This is an all or nothing situation or the child will figure this out as she gets older and ultimately suffer.
I don't want Grace to know how Kevin doesn't provide for her when she is with me. I don't want her to know that he chose gambling away all of our money and divorce over saving his family. I want her to feel loved and wanted and secure, but the choices he is making will only lead to her detriment. It's so sad.
Anyone reading this please pray for resolution to come quickly before I miss any other precious moments with my child. Also, please pray for God to come stir into Kevin's mind, heart and soul to the point of his full turn around, if not to become my husband again then at least to become the best father for Grace that he can be.
Saturday, October 16, 2010
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